Eighteen months ago, I started a Facebook group called P*ssytwinkle®,inspired by my completely unexpected kundalini-rising-right-out-of-my-sacral-chakra-transmission while I was meditating one day.
And after that I noticed, that I had an oracle right there that "twinkled" with approval of what I loved, what I desired, when my lover said something sweet to me, and I heard the tone of my truth.
I didn't know the breadth of her profound creative power- nor did I yet understand my sacred responsibility to her. I had no idea how life-changing P*ssytwinkle® would be for me.
She inspired me to seek her in the teachings of brilliant feminine energy teachers, in the teachings of creational masters, and in her whispers within the hinterlands of my own body and soul.
To back up a bit:
When I started my relationship coaching training, I thought I would become a couple's coach, but the most important thing I learned was that good relationships begin with
a good relationship with self.
I learned it when I looked into the mirror I saw my disconnected relationship with myself reflected in my relationships, and all the ways I contorted, performed and abandoned myself trying to be loved and accepted.
I learned that to improve the quality of my relationships, I would need to learn to love and accept myself.
And then P*ssytwinkle® came to me, in the most surprising way, convulsing up my body from my sacral chakra-which I didn’t even know I had- filling my body with light and radiating it out into the world around me.
She had me at hello.
She inspired me to seek her wisdom in the teaching spaces of feminine creational masters, to learn more about her world, her power and to embody her, even when I didn't yet fully understand why.
Now I know that her WHY is even bigger than I thought. In fact, it is holy.
Now I know that when P*ssytwinkle®- the Feminine, Shakti, Yin- feels herself fully, her love, desire, pleasure, the truth of her soul even when it disappoints others, and lets the world around her feel her in her fullness, the systems in her world will change- especially her relationships- because these are her essential life-serving ingredients.
I know that the Feminine is precious and indispensable- and yet dismissed, under-valued and even shamed in a world largely run by Masculine shadow energy.
I know that Masculine shadow shields himself from feeling her, suffocating her awesome power to create love, beauty, health for him and the world.
Because to feeling her calls him to face his hero's journey of reaching his own potential to embody the consciousness of the Masculine Champion to life-giving gifts of the Feminine.
I know that when the Masculine does not champion her, he kills his own connection to the preciousness and beauty of life, and to his own heart.
And that the Masculine that is disconnected from his heart causes suffering in the world.
I know now of the sacred responsibility of the Feminine is to allow herself to be felt by the Masculine in her world, so that he may be called into his heart.
But first she must honor her own.
She must raise the Masculine Champion with herself, to protect her Feminine self from the neglect, degradation and abuse that comes from the shadow masculine in her world.
And from the shadow masculine that lives within herself.
So she must raise the Masculine Champion within her that values her, that cherishes her-
her Feminine, her P*ssytwinkle- and change that system within.
Because when she does- and when YOU do, you create a new relationship template for the Masculine in you world. One that honors you, cherishes you. and lovingly and firmly
calls you to become your best self.
Because the Masculine Champion within YOU won't have it any other way.
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